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Today's great guy is someone who is confident, kind, intelligent, consistent, commitment-oriented, secure, honest, healthy, smart, fun, funny, emotionally available, able to make you a priority, interested in life, and a hard-working provider. These guys, by my estimate, are less than 5 percent of the available male population. Personal and professional experience, and uh, statistics ... Although that's a long list, unfortunately it is not a complete list. But the good news is that although 95 percent of men are like the ones listed above, we still have that allusive 5 percent we can choose from. Most are in relationships, because they are commitment-oriented, but sometimes women stupidly kick them out, and occasionally, as horrible as it is, their partners pass away.the type of guy you want exists, he's just found in the 17% of the population whose IQ is above average - 110 or above• - and even more important, is capable of objective, abstract and critical thinking and processing - with that addition we need to whittle the number down to 5 percent.** The others are throwbacks by professional woman standards. Wants final say over what you think, feel, believe, do and where you go? Your job is to be patient, ready and aware so you will recognize a jewel when he shows up.
Their analysis was based on a national longitudinal survey of over four thousand adults, aged 18-59, called the "How Couples Meet and Stay Together" (HCMST) survey.They may be good people, but they aren't good partners. You're together and he never (or barely) asks you anything about you - good Lord the minutes will tick by slowly with this one - and if not you, what is he interested in, anyway? Throwbacks haven't honed their brain - literally - they haven't maximized their human potential. The rest (~30%) meet through some part of their daily lives - church, family, neighborhood, work, or school.The vast majority of same sex couples meet online (a bit less than 70%).