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Even though no one else might know about your secret stalking, you will.
Chances are that you’ll find out stuff about who he’s dating or the fun life he’s having without you that will make you feel worse about yourself.
That can be a difficult balance to strike, especially when you do meet someone you really, really like.
The more fixated you are on finding love and obsessed about entering marriage, the more desperate you will appear, because eventually, the things that you think about most start seeping into every part of your life for the whole world to see.
Last week I spoke with Vanessa, a single-mother in her early thirties.
She has been dating the same guy off and on for over 2 years.
So you’re texting back and forth and you’ve got some sexual tension going. Resist the urge to “put her in her place” or hurl insults.
The worst thing you could do is putting the cart before the horse – and by that, I mean sending her a picture of your junk. (Just NO dude.) Nothing kills the vibe faster than getting too raunchy before she’s even entertained the thought of going to bed with you. Keep it simple and respond with either “Well, that’s not nice, sorry to bother you” or “Well, it was nice meeting you.” You have nothing to prove to her (or anyone watching) so defending yourself is beside the point.